Dear Mum, Thanks for being our guide for many years! I’m 24 years old now, ma. Suitors want sex before marriage. First of all, I’m still a virgin, and I see it as a mistake because I’m all by myself financially! I’m also a realtor.
My parents never supported me in school, and I’m losing my mind as there’s no one ready to help unless I sleep with them. I’m in my final year now and trying to write my project, but I have no money in my account.
I feel that if you need something badly and people won’t help, you are lucky to have something to exchange for it, which is what I’m about to do! I have already made up my mind. I just thought to let you know, ma.
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Also, my mum married as a virgin, but her husband made her life terrible to this day. I’m scared and don’t want to make the same mistake because I feel my father might even have sexual issues. He never took care of us and has denied my mum sex for many years. I feel I should have sex with my husband-to-be before marriage to ascertain his sexual capability.
Thanks, Faith
My dear Faith and others in her situation,
I don’t know whether to berate you or plead with you not to take the very foolish step you’ve decided on, but I must let you know that you’re about to embark on something that would most likely destroy you! I kid you not!
I know what I’m talking about. How old are you, by the way, that you’re already worrying about your future husband’s sexual compatibility? You’re still trying to find money to write your project and navigate your way through life! Did you come into this world to pursue a man? Are you even sure you’re not far behind in life regarding your destiny and progress?
I’m not rushing you, but there are people who graduated younger than you and are busy pursuing their destiny vigorously, successfully, and attracting the best things in life, without chasing what isn’t lost!
I should also add that there may be absolutely nothing wrong with your timeline or circumstances. You may be manifesting God’s wonderful plan for your life, which will ultimately turn you into a mighty fortress the world will salute, if you can endure the fire you are experiencing now, my darling.
I’m going to help you with your project, but please take a chill pill and let God see you through this painful phase of your life.
See if you won’t end up with one of God’s best and the best sex ever! God is too committed to those who are committed to Him. I suspect you’ve been reading too many sad stories of people who married the wrong men, even though they were chaste. One cannot rule that out. But there are also those who engaged in sex before marriage and ended up in disastrous marriages! Meanwhile, there are countless sweet, fantastically beautiful stories of virgins enjoying the very best marriages.
I know ladies who married as virgins but ended up with brutes, not because they lacked good character, but because if you fail to discover yourself and your divine identity, you may choose the wrong spouse!
If your destiny or marriage is under attack, you could end up with the devil itself. An evil foundation or ancestry could hand you over to a man who will harm you. If you fail to activate the power of God in you and maximise your purity supernaturally, the devil will fight you and ensure you end up with the wrong person.
Psalm 25:14 says: “The secret of the Lord is with them that fear Him, and to them He will show His covenant.”
1 Corinthians 2:9-10 says: “What no eye has seen, what no ear has heard, and what no human mind has conceived are the things God has prepared for those who love Him; these are the things God has revealed to us by His Spirit.”
If you can painstakingly keep your flesh undefiled in this day and age, and God is not constantly guiding you, I’m sorry, there’s a problem. A big one! You must find out what went wrong in your mother’s marriage and ensure you don’t follow that pattern.
You have immense power as a sexually pure person because you have your destiny in your grip and are protected from demonic invasion. Please don’t let the devil demobilise you! May you end up with someone ten times better than your dream man.
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Chastity does not belong to the past. It saves you a lot of trouble, preserves your beautiful destiny, and sets you apart from the crowd. You are far better off not engaging in premarital or extramarital sex. Stay chaste!